Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: first, seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then, offering the idea back to the speaker to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.[1] Reflective listening is a more specific strategy than the more general methods of active listening.
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Form of empathy
Reflective listening arose from Carl Rogers' school of client-centered therapy in counseling theory.[1] Empathy is at the center of Rogers' approach.[1]
It is a practice of expressing with genuine understanding as opposed to word-for-word regurgitation.[1] Reflective listening takes practice, and there must be a sincere interest while listening to the speaker in order for them to truly express themselves.[2]
Style of communication
Reflective listening is one of the core skills of motivational interviewing, a style of communication that works collaboratively to encourage change.[3] When reflecting on the words of the person speaking, their tone and other nonverbal clues are kept in mind.[3]
There will be times in daily life that reflective listening can be helpful. For example, if a loved one is suffering from depression and is not being honest about their feelings, using reflective listening could be an effective strategy to help them open up. Dr. Xavier Amador suggests if your partner claims they are doing fine, then you could respond with, “What you’re telling me is that there’s nothing wrong, is that correct? Can I tell you what I’ve noticed?”[4] These questions can allow the other party to feel valued, as they sometimes just want to be heard and not given advice immediately.[4]
Reflective listening is a crucial component in various occupations that require direct communication with others. Failure to understand the needs of the person speaking can result in errors in work such as problems being unresolved or decisions not being quickly made.[5]
Additional application
Reflective listening has been found to be effective in a therapeutic setting.[6] Using empathy to actively listen allows for better understanding of the context between both parties.[citation needed] Subjects receiving reflective listening from a counselor have reported better therapeutic relationship and more disclosure of feelings.[6] With a positive relationship between both parties achieved by reflective listening, there is an increase chance of recovery.[7]
Students that are entering the counseling field took part in a qualitative study that utilizes music, specifically song lyrics, to enhance their reflective listening skills.[8] By interpreting the emotions and feelings behind the words of a song, these participants are able to recognize hidden messages which is a skill they can transfer to listening to their future clients.[8]
See also
References
- ^ a b c d Braillon, Alain; Taiebi, Françoise (2020-09-01). "Practicing "Reflective listening" is a mandatory prerequisite for empathy". Patient Education and Counseling. 103 (9): 1866–1867. doi:10.1016/j.pec.2020.03.024. ISSN 0738-3991. PMID 32487470. S2CID 216209760.
- ^ Rogers, Carl R.; Farson, Richard E. (1987). "Active Listening" (PDF).
- ^ a b Miller, Barbara; Seabury, Robin (2001). "When is it motivational interviewing?" (PDF).
- ^ a b Pearson, Catherine (2022-10-27). "How to Help a Partner Living With Depression". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2022-10-31.
- ^ Rautalinko, Erik; Lisper, Hans-Olof (Spring 2004). "Effects of Training Reflective Listening in a Corporate Setting". Journal of Business and Psychology. 18 (3): 281–299. doi:10.1023/B:JOBU.0000016712.36043.4f. S2CID 144777406.
- ^ a b Rautalinko, E; Lisper, HO; Ekehammar, B (2007). "Reflective listening in counseling: Effects of training time and evaluator social skills". American Journal of Psychotherapy. 61 (2): 191–209. doi:10.1176/appi.psychotherapy.2007.61.2.191. PMID 17760322.
- ^ Rautalinko, Erik; Lisper, Hans-Olof; Ekehammar, Bo (April 2007). "Reflective Listening in Counseling: Effects of Training Time and Evaluator Social Skills". American Journal of Psychotherapy. 61 (2): 191–209. doi:10.1176/appi.psychotherapy.2007.61.2.191. ISSN 0002-9564. PMID 17760322.
- ^ a b Davis, Eric; Pereira, Jennifer (2016). "Using Song Lyrics to Enhance Counselor Trainee Perceptions of their Reflective Listening Skills. Journal of Counselor Preparation and Supervision". Journal of Counselor Preparation and Supervision. 8.
Further reading
- Arnold, Kyle (2014). "Behind the Mirror: Reflective Listening and its Tain in the Work of Carl Rogers". The Humanistic Psychologist. 42 (4): 354–369. doi:10.1080/08873267.2014.913247.
- Baker, A. C.; Jensen, P. J.; Kolb, D. A. (1997). "In Conversation: Transforming Experience into Learning". Simulation & Gaming. 28 (1): 6–12. doi:10.1177/1046878197281002. S2CID 143770463.
- Fisher, Dalmar (1981). Communication in organizations. St. Paul, Minnesota: West Publishing Company.
- Gerwood, Joseph B. (1993). "Nondirective Counseling Interventions with Schizophrenics". Psychological Reports. 73 (3f): 1147–51. doi:10.2466/pr0.1993.73.3f.1147. PMID 8115566. S2CID 45988497. INIST 3863920.
- Katz, Neil H. and John W. Lawyer (1985). Communication and conflict resolution skills. Dubuque, Iowa: Kendall Hunt.
- Kotzman, Anne (1984). Reflective listening. Kew, Victoria: Institute of Early Childhood Development.
- Rogers, Carl (1951). Client-Centered Therapy: its current practice, implications, and theory. Boston: Houghton Mifflin.
- Sahakian, William S. (1977). "William S. Sahakian. History and systems of psychology. New York: Wiley, 1975. Xviii + 494 pp. $19.50; paper, $8.95. (Paul T. Mountjoy)". Journal of the History of the Behavioral Sciences. 13 (1): 78–81. doi:10.1002/1520-6696(197701)13:1<78::AID-JHBS2300130109>3.0.CO;2-9.
External links
- Reflective Listening — One-page summary used by National Health Care for the Homeless Council (currently under construction as of January 12, 2013)
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